Why you should put S*x in your calendar

Description

In this conversation, David Chambers, a men's dating, relationship, and intimacy coach, discusses the topics of toxic masculinity and improving communication in romantic partnerships. He emphasizes the importance of context when discussing masculinity and highlights the need for mature masculinity rather than toxic masculinity. Chambers also provides insights on how men can improve their communication skills by being present, listening actively, and expressing their feelings. He also touches on the concept of emotional intelligence and its role in relationships. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the benefits of creating safe spaces for open conversations and the value of understanding and educating others. In this conversation, David Chambers and Charlie discuss various topics related to relationships, career ambitions, and the impact of pornography. They emphasize the importance of finding joy and light in one's life and having the courage to pursue what brings fulfillment. They also explore how men can balance their career ambitions with maintaining healthy relationships, highlighting the need for structure, vision, and conscious communication. The conversation touches on the different relationship structures, including polyamory and celibacy, and the importance of open and honest communication in relationships. They also discuss the impact of pornography on relationships and the need for better sex education.

Takeaways

Toxic masculinity should be understood in context, and there is a need for mature masculinity.
Improving communication in romantic partnerships requires being present, actively listening, and expressing feelings.
Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in relationships and allows for better understanding and connection.
Creating safe spaces for open conversations is essential for learning, understanding, and educating others. Find joy and light in your life and have the courage to pursue what brings fulfillment.
Balance career ambitions with maintaining healthy relationships by creating structure, having a shared vision, and engaging in conscious communication.
Explore different relationship structures, such as polyamory and celibacy, and choose what works best for you and your partner.
Be mindful of the impact of pornography on relationships and prioritize open and honest communication about desires and boundaries.
Advocate for better sex education that goes beyond the basics and includes discussions about different relationship dynamics and diverse sexualities.

Timestamp

00:00 Intro

02:08 Toxic Masculinity?

06:32 How should men improve their communication

11:03 Happy wife happy life

16:16 Emotional Intelligence

21:06 Manipulation! but in a good way

26:33 Not SHOULD but GET TO

34:08 From Tech to Dating Coach

39:05 Scary Thoughts of the Transition

44:19 Balancing Relationships and Working

49:24 SCHEDULE SEX