"DEAL WITH YOUR SHIT" Ok what does that mean exactly?
Deal with your own shit first of all. Before you think you need to fix everybody else.
Understand your dysfunction, your issues, your anger and your harmful behaviors. Except the fact you can be accountable for every faucet of your life.
Deal with it. Don't bring all your shit to other people. It is also not blaming others for your life.
Don't foist it upon relationships, friendships, social groups, the workplace or pass it on to your kids.
Don't expect others to deal with your shit and be free social workers, bodyguards, crisis counsellors, or emotional punch-bags. Deal with your shit, don't drag others into it and then wonder why your not living your best life.
It's your shit. Maybe it started as someone else's shit but it's yours now. Own it and take reasonability for your own actions.
Here are 3 places you can start by dealing with this junk weighing you down. Becoming aware, learn what triggers you and work every month on better boundaries.
Time to put on the big girl panties and let go of poor me and take charge of your life...
and remember Mama Loves!!!!!!
