John Maxwell says there are 4 levels of relationships:
Surface - which is passive and requires no dedicated intention
Structural - which is based on routine, common interest, Common occupancy of space
Secure - When people want to spend time with one another, have trust, and comfort, and can test the friendship
Solid - when people serve & give to one another, talk from the heart, and have deep trust
Perhaps when it comes to respecting and relating to one another, we sometimes think a relationship should be on a different level than it is purposed to be. Some relationships are for a time period in our lives, some may last a lifetime, and others may come and go. Through all relationships, we have something to give and something to learn. It's OK to acknowledge the variance in our relationship and to appreciate them for what they are. As we think about relating to one another, keep in mind that the goal is not for all relationships to reach the highest level - which would be non-sustainable. The goal is to realize the fullness of the relationship that is meant to be in a moment in time, whether it is foundational for a stronger relationship or foundational for life progress, time will tell.
Come back tomorrow to talk about conflict in relationship.
