Remember the childhood game of Tug of War. When choosing your team, you would choose the the kids you thought were strongest players. Sometimes your team would be up against a team that is even stronger than your team. Then you would start screaming to your team "pull pull pull". So when you are going through rough patches life, remember it is okay to tell yell "pull pull pull". For me this equates to praying for a "win" (a blessing) when I feel as if too much is going contrary to how I planned. My after I have tried all I know to do, my "pull pull pull" becomes a desperate prayer to God who is with me wherever I go. When I use wisdom instead of my own strength, My "pull pull pull" turns into simply remembering, He is Jehovah Shammah.