Suzy and Diana revisit Pixar’s Finding Nemo to talk about how the film hits differently as parents. They unpack Marlin’s trauma and anxiety, Dory as a thoughtful nod to neurodiversity, why “family” is bigger than blood, and how to balance protection with independence. They also put Nemo through the Disney Moms Gone Wrong Hall of Fame criteria and land on a verdict.
00:00 Welcome, “Hidden Mickey” kid cameos, why Nemo is on repeat at home
02:00 2003 shocker, quick plot refresher
03:40 Dory’s humor and what she represents for neurodivergent listeners
10:24 The parenting balance between protection and letting kids grow
16:32 Marlin and Nemo’s relationship shift from fear to trust
21:07 Safe risks, helicopter parenting, and real life boundaries
25:04 Family beyond blood: Bruce, Crush, Squirt, and the tank crew as a village
31:39 Most emotional moments and why they land as parents
38:31 Nemo’s fin and talking about disability with care and support
43:02 Hall of Fame debate and verdict
46:01 Scheduling notes, shoutouts, sign off
Marlin’s overprotection is rooted in trauma and love, not control. Naming that helps parents reframe their own anxiety.
Dory reads as a warm, respectful reflection of neurodiversity, reminding us that different brains belong in the story.
Kids need safe space to try, stumble, and grow. Guardrails beat bubble wrap.
“Family” is the people who show up. Nemo’s helpers along the way model a real village.
Disability is part of the world, not an afterthought. Nemo’s fin is handled with empathy, not pity.
Verdict: Yes to the Disney Moms Gone Wrong Hall of Fame for cultural impact and emotional storytelling, even without iconic songs.
“The balance between protecting your kids and letting them grow up is real, and it’s hard.”
“Family is more of a feeling than DNA.”
“Safe risks matter. You can supervise without smothering.”
“Dory reminds us that different ways of thinking have a place in the journey.”
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