As promised...Rules of Engagement with Mandy & Jenny #36 extra REBOOT, with never before heard recording!
Show Notes:
0:00: On this episode…
0:45: Intro
1:00: Greeting
1:08: Argentina
1:50: Need more World Cups
2:30: Christmas and Family gatherings
2:55: Rules of civil conversation
3:30: Rule No. 1-Shared understanding rather than winning the argument
4:30: Example- Round vs. Flat Earth
5:45: Break
5:50: Shared Understanding continued
6:35: Rule No. 2-Clarify with others to understand their perspective
7:00: Example- Protein vs. Carbohydrates
9:50: Rule No. 3-Endeavor to avoid committing logical fallacy’s in support of my claims
10:20: Example- Humans should not drink cow milk
11:30: Break
12:20: Logical Fallacy continued
13:10: All natural
13:50: Jenny’s fallacy example
14:10: It’s our responsibility to not use logical fallacies
14:35: Rule No. 4- Attempt to account for your own biases and be humble
14:55: People don’t understand their own biases
16:25: Don’t tell people it’s their bias
17:25: Intellectually Humble
17:55: Break
18:05: If people used these rules
18:40: If someone can’t be civil, don’t engage
19:05: Rule No. 5- Be reasonable, rational, and create coherent arguments
19:30: How do you know if you’re being any of these?
21:10: Humans aren’t made to be rational
21:30: Exit tickets
22:20: Mandy’s exit ticket
23:00: Jenny’s exit ticket
23:20: Ending
23:25: Break
23:45: Follow Kite Flying on Instagram!
24:08: Break
24:35: Bonus Episode
25:10: Rule No. 6- Challenge ideas but refrain from personal attacks and mean spiritedness
25:50: Nonverbal communication
26:25: Once you know, it’s annoying
26:45: Bad way to start sentences
27:15: What Mandy does
27:40: Is sarcasm “mean spiritedness?”
27:50: Rule No. 7-Use the principle of charity to interpret others point of view in the best light
28:15: Benefit of the doubt
28:45: Viewpoints that people have
30:45: J.K. Rowling
32:10: Cancel Culture
32:25: What happened with Rowling?
33:25: Interpret the others point of view as best as you can
33:50: What Rowling said
34:25: Rule No. 8-Remain genuinely receptive to changing my mind
34:55: What some people think about this
36:05: Mandy likes it when people change her mind
36:35: They’re trying to talk you into something
36:45: The Ten Commandments
37:25: It’s okay have your mind changed
37:10: You can agree with some parts but not the whole picture
38:40: Mandy had her mind changed on Facebook
42:35: You can change people’s minds on the internet
42:00: Facebook fired their employees
42:40: Journalists should not use quotes from Twitter
43:25: Don’t let random people write articles
44:15: Bored Panda
44:40: The Onion
45:50: The rules of conversation
45:55: Ending