Forgiveness is the new Revenge.
Hello everyone, this is Sohail Mirza here and welcome back to another episode of Podcast Discover with Soil Mendoza, and in today's episode we'll be talking about why forgiveness is better than taking a revenge ever. Had the thought that you want to take a revenge from someone and at the end of the day you think that it's ******** idea and you don't want a revenge and you don't want to forgive them either?But you still have grudges for them. So what we should do in this kind of situation if I talk to 2017, so almarza, he will be thinking about a revenge. How to **** that person?But now after some maturity and.Some experiences?What I will say is forgiveness is better than taking a revenge.If you take revenge from someone, what will happen is this is a loop and they will be trying to take revenge back and they will avenge you for that. So what I will tell you is it's better to forgive someone and don't forget it. There is a difference between forgetting it and forgiveness. Forgive someone but don't.Forget it, what they have did to you and don't entertain them back in your life. So how to do this? Like if you are in a tough situation to forgive and either to forgive or either to take revenge, how to choose the right one? I've read one code like 1 old Man was saying that if you have a fight with someone, if you are not in a fault and they really hurt you and if you want to give a blow just blow them.Just blow them hard hard. You can OK. Then don't look back if you have a fight.But I don't apply this kind of philosophy in my life, but that old man saying was true.Because there are some fights in your life you need to **** someone literally. **** someone so.What I will tell you, if there is a virtual fight or verbal fight.Do one thing, just forgive them.Don't take any kind of revenge.And try to heal from it and try to acknowledge what happened with between you and the other person. Try to acknowledge it.And try to work on it.That next time onwards, this won't be happening with other person or other person is not doing this with you or can in your life.So.At the end of the day, we are humans and taking revenge is a loop and you will be ended up in that loop forever.If you take revenge, you will start the loop and it won't end. If you forgive someone and you just move on from it and don't forget it.Just forgive them and leave your life.Because if you forgive them, this is beneficial for your mental health, not for them. You are doing this. Think about it, you are doing it for yourself, not for them. You are not doing a favor to them. You are doing a favor to yourself and your future self will thank you for this. So I hope you guys like this podcast. If you did, please share it with your friends and family. This is Sohail Mirza signing off.
