Each person comes to a situation having experienced things that have shaped him into the man he is today. One of the first meetings you should do in a group is to help catch everyone up on your life story. Miles and Redlight talk about a purpose, structure, and framework to tell your story so that it helps to paint a picture of who you are to a group of other men so they can understand critical information about you. Take notes so that you can share your story with others in a way that they can understand it.