Judging someone does not define who they are. It defines who you are.
Research has found that people tend to overestimate personality and underestimate the situation when making attribution's, especially with people they don't know. And just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost or that they're wrong or that they're worse than or that you're better than they're just on a different path. But everybody wants the same thing. Everybody wants fulfillment and happiness and joy and to be loved. They're just on a different path and it looks different than yours and it might seem like it's on the other side of the world than yours. But remember the planet keeps turning in. The Sun always shines on a different side.
