It is just about being okay with your imperfection and that you aren't good enough. You are good enough exactly how you are. You are good enough. Exactly how you are. Write that down please. I am good enough exactly as I am. What if the universe was like that It gives you stuff. It's not stuff that you want, but it's exactly what you need for your group regardless of whether or not you believe the universe is friendly. If you believe the universe is friendly, you're life would improve dramatically.