While getting ideas from friends, family and other blogs for this post, I heard tons of things that felt important to talk about. This could blog post could have easily been called “40 Things Couples Should Absolutely Talk About Before Getting Married“
Some ideas that I read and heard were pretty obvious stuff that gets talked about while two people are dating before marriage comes into the picture.
Then there were topics that made marriage seem like this super scary thing. It was as though if you didn’t know the other person inside and out and how they would deal with every hypothetical situation in the book, you shouldn’t marry them.
A marriage takes effort every day to make it work. It’s about ongoing conversations about things you don’t agree on, leaning on each other during the hard times and constantly checking to see how you’re feeling about each other.
Despite the ongoing work that is needed for a healthy marriage, there are 4 things that every couple should absolutely talk about before getting hitched.