Stress-Free IEP® with Frances Shefter, Episode 92
In this heartwarming and insightful episode of Stress-Free IEP®, host Frances Shefter reconnects with longtime colleague and friend, Dr. Miranda Montoya. As a seasoned special education administrator and the founder of Connective Minds, Dr. Montoya brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to the conversation. Together, they explore the importance of teamwork, family collaboration, and empowering students within the IEP process and beyond.
A Friendship Rooted in Teamwork
Frances opens the episode by sharing a nostalgic memory of working alongside Miranda decades ago on a D.C. case that left a lasting impression. What stood out then—and still resonates now—was the emphasis on collaboration over conflict. As Frances recalls, “We don’t have to be adversarial—it’s about the kid.” That philosophy became a shared foundation for both women and continues to influence their work today.
Dr. Montoya echoes this sentiment, emphasizing that all parties involved in special education—school staff, families, advocates, and attorneys—are partners. “That’s how this works the best way it can,” she says. Whether you’re in the school building or supporting from the community, it’s all about teaming up for the child.
Connective Minds: A New Chapter
Now based in Columbus, Ohio, Dr. Montoya continues her work as a special education administrator while running Connective Minds, her consulting and publishing company. One of her proudest recent achievements is publishing a children’s book, Petina Moves Again. The story follows a young chipmunk navigating the emotional journey of relocating—an experience familiar to many neurodiverse children who struggle with change.
The book features Mrs. Elephant, a kind teacher who helps Petina feel a sense of belonging. The story ultimately comes full circle when Petina grows up to become a teacher herself. As Miranda explains, the book is designed to help children see themselves in stories and feel validated in their experiences. It’s particularly helpful for kids who thrive on routine and may find transitions especially challenging.
Helping Children Through Change
Both Frances and Miranda discuss the power of preparation in reducing anxiety and behavioral challenges. Whether it’s a social story to explain a big move or a preview of what to expect before an event, giving children tools to understand upcoming changes can make a huge difference.
Frances shares her own experience with her daughter, who has anxiety. Advanced prep often transforms a stressful situation into an exciting one. “If they’re more prepared, there’s gonna be less behaviors,” Frances notes—a sentiment Miranda wholeheartedly agrees with.
Read the entire episode summary: https://shefterlaw.com/2025/04/championing-equity-in-education-with-dr-miranda-montoya
Learn more about Dr. Miranda Montoya:
* Connect with Dr. Montoya on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmirandakogon
* Visit Connective Minds’s website: https://www.connectivemindsbooks.com
* Follow Dr. Montoya’s book on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/petuniamovesagain
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