The message focuses on how God lifts us through humility within the church. In the world, meritocracy defines value; you reap what you sow, and effort determines reward. While this principle works in society, it doesn’t apply to God’s grace. His blessings can’t be earned; they are gifts. Like Jacob in Genesis 27, we often strive to qualify for God’s favour, pretending to be something we’re not, much like Jacob wearing Esau’s skin. But unlike Isaac, God isn’t blind. He sees our true selves and loves us regardless of our efforts or failures.
Pretending to have it all together leads to pride, making us unteachable. A closed, guarded heart leaves no room for God’s grace to flow. We fall into the trap of legalism, thinking we can work our way into God’s favour, which only leads to anxiety, fear, and disappointment. But God’s love is not based on merit. Jacob’s blessing was ordained long before his birth, just as God’s love for us was settled before we did anything to deserve it.
True humility requires vulnerability, admitting that we don’t have it all figured out. This openness is essential not only with God but also within the church community. Mutual vulnerability creates mutual protection. When we confess our struggles instead of hiding behind a facade, we better reflect God’s heart and build a church rooted in grace, not appearances. Pretending to be perfect isolates us, while honesty invites healing and spiritual growth.
Jacob’s turning point came when he finally surrendered and wrestled with God in Genesis 32:22-32. Only when he admitted his need did God bless him and give him a new name. In the same way, we must come to the end of ourselves, acknowledging our emptiness so God can fill us. The church should be where grace flows through honesty, correction, and mercy. Though vulnerability is frightening, God helps us through it, lifting us when we humble ourselves under His mighty hand. Come as you are; not because you are worthy, but because He is.
