No one can tell you who you are because no one knows the gifts and talents God has put inside you. Loving yourself and putting yourself first does not make you selfish or self-centered. People confuse putting yourself first with being stingy with. These are two separate things. One does not come from a place of love, while the other is the understanding that if I cannot love myself, then I cannot love you.
There is nothing in life that is impossible. Don’t limit yourself to the sky when people have gone to the moon. You can decide to be your worst enemy by never believing in yourself and your strengths, or you can be an example to the world that nothing is unattainable. Take heart and be encouraged. You are great, and you can do excellent things in this world. Remember to believe in yourself even if others do not.