I’ve learned that just because someone loves you, doesn’t mean they are compatible with you. Love is a lot of things; patient, kind, it doesn’t boast and is not proud 1Cor. 13:4-8, but to go into a marriage you need to also have passion, friendship, God, responsibility, and need to cherish each other. I see why God showed me a man that was my friend because growing up I never valued friendships at the start of my relationship. I dated guys because I was attracted to them, and not because I fell in love with having their friendship in my life. Now, I need more than just an attraction to be in a lasting relationship, even marriage.
I have learned in this journey to put aside my emotions because you do not want to get into any relationship based on your emotions. Why? Because emotions and feelings constantly change. It is an endurance race, not an emotional one. I advise leaving everything to God because his promises do come to pass, you don’t have to make them come to pass. Don’t live in fear of making a mistake, or don’t set limitations on yourself by rejecting others for the “unknown”.
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