在剪辑完准备写文稿的时候偶然发现了这首美国人Nancy R. Smith写在1973年的诗For Every Woman，和我们想表达的如出一辙。
For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong,
there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable.
For every woman who is tired of acting dumb,
there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectation of “knowing everything.”
For every woman who is tired of being called “an emotional female,”
there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle.
For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes,
there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity.
For every woman who is tired of being a sex object,
there is a man who must worry about his potency.
For every woman who feels “tied down” by her children,
there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared parenthood.
For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay,
there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being.
For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile,
there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking.
For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation,
there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier.
性别刻板印象既斩男又斩女。何必呢？都放自己一马吧。
回到目娛樂節今日介绍：
01：01 第一个故事：传统印度家庭对强势印度姐姐的束缚 vs 进步印度家庭对她细腻老公的鼓励
04：30 为什么大家长式的男人要求严格的尊重？
08：09 第二个故事：自强的菲律宾男同事无法得到父亲的肯定，屠龙少年成为恶龙，活成自己讨厌的样子
14：10 症结：担心选择太少，同时又害怕选择太多。因为没得选而苦恼，而一旦完全自由，无限的选项又让自己害怕到原地踏步。
16：52 我们对于这两种恐惧的选择和建议
22：01 第三个故事：大厂程序员希望少聘不合格的女工程师以免拖累团队工作效率，女工程师的稀少是因为先天因素吗？
27：22 我们只想提供更多的“解题思路”，并不想直接影响你的想法和决定。
老陈：这样下去，不再讲998个故事我可能会摸不着头脑。
片头曲：
Gold Coast Rhythm (Wallach Party) -- Justin Hurwitz
来自Babylon (2022) OST
