Relationships CAN be fickle but they do not have to be. When there is intentional effort to connect and make a commitment to be a good friend you will see a difference in that relationship. When you provide and receive genuine support it creates a solid foundation in your friendships. HOW friends show up matters to me. If you’re coming with the energy of not wanting to be present, stay home. Trust me sis your friend senses the negative energy. Sometimes you have to go on separate paths from those you once considered friends and that’s okay. I chose to be in one-sided friendships in the past. I am now taking ownership in setting boundaries and creating space if needed to connect more with those who match my energy. I am learning that instead of feeling like I have to pull back on my positive traits that may be “too much” for some I am now connecting with those who thrive off connection with others as well. It has been a freeing experience and true peace.
