What would you rather do? Go to a friend's funeral and speak kind words about their character. or Listen to their problems and be there to support them through a tough time. I've got news for you. Not enough of us are choosing the second option. We are losing men at an alarming rate every single day. This is not a male problem. This is everyone's problem. We can't go back and save the one we lost but we can help those that are still here.