Episode 65 starts with a quote by Margaret Atwood. Melissa and Sydney discuss what the quote means to them and get into a deep discussion about how women can feel as though they are being watched all of the time and how, even when there is no actual man in the vacinity, women take on their own voyeuristic point of view on the inside and how there seems to be a sexual watcher whether or not a man is present.
They notice that being attached to a man has always been a survival mechanism for women. That, as women, we are just beginning to move away from that. That it would be helpful to ask ourselves "Where is the man in me?" and what type of man that lies deep within and that we have internalized and that shows up in our minds and can cause us to feel less than.
Realizing that the answer is doing the inner work and deciding that we are enough. No matter what society or other people think or say. Believeing that we are magnificent.
Sydney talks about the embodiment process and how she is moving through it for herself. She gives us tips about beginning to love who we are. Asking the question, what does it mean to me to feel sexy and beautiful? Noticing that to her, true sexiness is the creation process. Asking how she can be sexy for herself. Finding beauty in how her heart experiences the world. Moving away from what society says about any of it. Creating a healthy masculine point of view internally. Becoming free.
Giving ourselves permission to play around with social norms. Noticing what we really like and what we really want. Deciding what makes us comfortable in our own skin. Challenging societal fear. Challenging ourselves to go in deep and investigate for ourselves.
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