In life don’t expect anything from anyone.  Because expectation, when not fulfilled gives you pain.  When you get something without expecting It gives you pleasure. 
I struggled with expectations in my relationship for many years. Lots of pain and lots of blame. I hope you can learn from my experience in 8 years with my Fiancé and how i have learnt the lesson of expectations.
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