In this episode of Blueprint Breakers, I sit down with Jonathan Aslay, a successful dating coach whose journey from personal struggle to self-love has redefined his mission. We delve into Jonathan's backstory, which includes a hundred dates in one year and the life-changing realization that self-improvement is key. He shares how his dating coaching business was born from these experiences and how his views have evolved beyond traditional dating expectations. We discuss the importance of self-love, the complexities of modern relationships, especially in midlife, and how to approach online dating with a fresh perspective. Jonathan offers invaluable advice on being authentic, the importance of emotional compatibility, and how to look at dating not as a destination but as a journey of personal growth. Tune in for a compelling conversation that offers both wisdom and practical tips for anyone navigating the dating world, especially those in their midlife years.
About Jonathon Aslay
The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.
After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.
He realized that the dating process reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.
Today, he is on a mission to encourage both men and women to fully love themselves with his book, "What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?"—packed with fun, engaging spiritual and personal growth practices.
Check out Jonathon’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@JonathonAslay
About Amy Palmer
As host and facilitator for the Blueprint Breaker podcast, Amy is dedicated to expanding and amplifying the voices of women over 45 who are living a “non-traditional” lifestyle. She believes there is more than one way to do life and we all deserve to be seen, heard, understood and represented.
After a lifelong struggle with feeling “outside” the societal norm and longing to live up to perceived expectations, pardon Amy’s French as she says fuck the blueprint! She has found peace, acceptance, and joy as she embarks on the next era of her life as a digital nomadic entrepreneur.
Amy was formerly a senior corporate executive, a nationally recognized sales and operations expert, an award-winning actress, a resident of 13 different US cities, and a prize-winning DC blogger. Amy has a vast network of friends and colleagues with whom she enjoys travel and adventures and a close family including six niblings (nieces & nephews), the loves of her life!
Amy's Instagram: @amypalmer.today
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