When you struggle with the idea of just wanting to be right, where is your focus? Is your focus on being happy or on being simply "right" in that situation?
Most of the time, in relationships, we keep going back to the same thinking patterns, that if only our partner would change X, Y, Z things would work out. Or we keep revisiting a conversation, analyzing what, how, when they said something and in doing so, we have endless conversations with ourselves , where we prove our point of being right.
But does that even bring us happiness, contentment or clarity in a relationship?