Expectations we put on ourselves for measuring performance during the PhD are often goal-oriented. Rarely do we use these expectations to motivate us to become the person who is X and Y.
Who is capable of fulfilling that goal.
Who has acquired the skillset for high performance.
Who ultimately feels peaceful and grateful for the journey and the challenges that help the growth.
And who believes that the goals we set are going to be met one way or another because this person knows the direction they are headed.
When you have a direction, you do not feel lost. There will be moments that are dull, scary, and demotivating, but your direction will keep you going.
When you remove the influence of what others want from you – what is it that you want? What brings you joy, and keeps you motivated? What is the direction you are headed beyond the PhD?
