We’re revisiting one of our most popular early episodes — Getting a Fair Property Settlement.
Everyone going through a separation wants a fair outcome. The challenge is that your idea of “fair” and your ex-partner’s can be very different — and emotions or past hurts often get in the way.
In this episode, family law expert Heather McKinnon shares her top tips for reaching a fair financial settlement without unnecessary conflict or cost. Her practical advice remains just as relevant today as when we first aired this episode.
Key takeaways include:
Agree early on what property and liabilities you both have.
Do your due diligence — know your own and your ex-partner’s financial position.
If you can’t agree on an asset’s value, agree to get a valuer.
Don’t let emotional attachment block a sensible outcome.
Get early legal advice to understand your best- and worst-case scenarios.
Focus on fairness, not punishment.
Consider a financial planner for fresh ideas and solutions.
Mediate once both parties understand the full asset picture.
Keep communication open.
Wait 3–6 months after separation before finalising finances.
