Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas Day!
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As we are on holiday breaks from school and work and spending more time together as a family, see if any of this has been coming up for you...
Have you noticed that your kids are like little mirrors showing you all of your worst attributes?
They are like mini personified versions of your characteristics that you've been trying to hide.
But they don't hide.
They yell and scream very loud for all the world to see.
No wonder we take it on as Mothers. We make our child's actions mean something about us. Because we can see where their actions are actually a reflection of what we gifted them either through nature or nurture.
But it doesn't have to be a problem.
We can use the reflected image as a useful self-awareness tool if we can inspect it with curiosity, love, and acceptance; not judgement.
And speaking of judgement, usually what we judge as wrong in someone else, is probably something we are working on within ourselves also. Again, a helpful awareness tool. We might be projecting our own insecurities onto them and judging them for it.
In this episode we dig deeper into judging, projecting, and mirroring.
If you are being triggered by something that someone else is doing, let's explore it and see if any of these three concepts are at play to learn more about your amazing self.
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