When I ask you "What kind of Mom do you want to be?" what comes up for you?
When you get to "define for yourself" what kind of mom you want to be?
Look at what you wrote down (or thought of)
Is it a big long list of DO's. And don't do's?
It's all in your action line, right?
Maybe with some feelings you want to feel.
And maybe even some thoughts you want to think.
What does a "Good Mom" look like for you?
Does your brain interpret that mostly as 'What does a good mom DO?"
Let's talk about the difference between BEing and DOing!
You are a human BEing which means you are going to DO a bunch of messy stuff that's not your ideal.
But who ARE you actually?
You Are actually an eternal being, not just a human being.
And our job is to REMEMBER who She IS!
It's not actually about what you DO. It's about who you ARE.
Not even who you are becoming, cause you already Are Her.
You just need to remember who She IS!
And then live into in. Meaning your thoughts, feelings, and yes, Actions will align eventually once you believe and remember that you already ARE Good!!
So, instead of "What kind of Mom do you want to DO?" which is your your brain might have interpreted that first question, just know that You already Are the kind of Mom you Want to BE! Cause your desires (your wants) yours, your specific to you! tell you who you ARE.
What kind of Mom ARE you? (not what kind of Mom are you doing?)
Who have you always been? Your spirit is trying to tell you. Listen to your heart to find out. And the rest of the model will follow along.
Believe you ARE a Good Mom, my friend! It'll change everything for you!
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