Do people look at you with your "litter" of children at church and say comments like "I don't know how you do it all!" or ask you "How do you do it?!"
What is "it" exactly?
Cause when people ask me that, my answer is that I don't do it "all". Who could? Who does?
I don't think that anyone can or does "do it ALL"
We all have to make decisions all day long about what we are going to and not going to do. Sometimes we make those decisions unconsciously but regardless, the decisions are being made. I suggest you get intentional it and "pick your fights" where it best serves you and your kids.
And remember, if it doesn't determine whether you are a "good mom" or not, then just decide by what you want to do and not do.
You get to decide! You are the mother here now! No parenting expert on instagram or even your own mom can decide for you. You know you, you know your kids, and your desires will lead you to your best life. So start paying attention to you! You can be your own parenting expert. You have The Almighty God in your corner! He will lead you and guide you and walk beside you. He gave you the exact kids that you need and that need you for the optimal earth life experience. Trust the process. And do what you feel called to do. And drop the war on the rest!
You've got this Momma! You don't have to do it ALL, you ARE a Good Mom no matter what.
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