In the fourth episode of the "Thinking Thick Podcast," we talk about the idea that a plus-size woman cannot look for a partner that is the "whole package." Do we want a nice, sweet, caring partner? Or do we want someone who we find attractive? Why are we told that our ideal partner cannot have both the personality we desire and the looks we are attracted to? We talk about and try to make sense of our real life personal experiences, our friends reactions to our past partners, how society portrays plus-size women dating versus plus-size men, and much more!