What if the key to your success, fulfilment, and happiness lies in embracing every part of your humanness — even the parts you’ve been told to hide?
In this episode of Inside The Mind, Allie and Jen dismantle the “good vibes only” narrative and take you on a deep dive into what it truly means to be human.
Hint: it’s messy, multifaceted, and outrageously liberating.
From laughing over tea and chocolate preferences, to raw and real reflections on self-responsibility, they unpack how rejecting parts of yourself creates exhaustion, disconnection, and missed opportunities for growth.
This is your invitation to show up fully, unapologetically, and powerfully in every space you enter.
Why? Because being human is the whole damn point.
Tune in now!
Episode Highlights:
(00:42) A hilarious dive into tea preferences, chocolate indulgences, and how tiny joys make us beautifully human.
(06:30) Jen and Allie on why it’s essential to accept all aspects of yourself — even the “cunty” parts.
(10:18) The effects of masking your true self and cherry-picking what you show the world.
(15:22) How radical self-responsibility empowers you to own both your light and shadow sides.
(20:45) Building a life-first business: How Jen and Allie built a $300k business while navigating personal challenges.
(23:15) Why the human spectrum — owning your full humanity — is the fastest path to success and fulfilment.
Action Items:
Start observing the parts of you that you’re rejecting and ask, “What do these parts have to teach me?”
Practise self-responsibility. Take ownership of your decisions, actions, and even the moments you wish you could erase.
Be fully present and real in your life and business.
Quotes:
“To be human is to hold it all — the light and the shadow, the virtuous and the messy.”
“Success happens when you let your humanness ride shotgun instead of locking it in the boot.”
Takeaways:
The Power of Full Acceptance: Stop fragmenting yourself. Wholeness comes from owning all parts of you, even the parts you hide.
Success Through Humanity: A thriving business and life aren’t built on perfection; they’re built on self-responsibility, devotion, and ecology.
The Freedom of Being Real: When you drop the facade and embrace your humanness, you create space for growth, connection, and ease.
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