“We had already been talking about adopting anyway for years before. So we just decided we don't want to put ourselves through this journey with all the factors against us. Let's just go the adoption route.”
Aisha's breastfeeding journey was a heartfelt attempt to create a deep bond with her adopted child while fulfilling Islamic guidelines. Despite trying herbal remedies and using a breast pump, she couldn’t produce milk. Her sister stepped in, providing breast milk to meet the Islamic criteria, solidifying the familial bond. Aisha reflects on the emotional impact of this journey, including her struggle with societal support, feelings of inadequacy, and the unique challenges of becoming a mother at 46. She emphasizes the need for early advice, community resources, and emotional support for mothers navigating unconventional paths to nurturing their children.
“For me, obviously, as a non-religious Muslim, it was just a way to feel closer to my child, so I thought this is amazing, was an amazing way to bond with him, even at age two.”
00:00 Introduction to the Holding Time Podcast
00:41 Aisha's Adoption Journey
01:06 Challenges and Triumphs of Adoption
04:45 Breastfeeding from an Islamic Perspective
12:05 The Process of Inducing Lactation
23:02 Reflections and Advice for Adoptive Mothers
25:44 Conclusion and Acknowledgements
