Hey, beautiful souls! 🌟 In this episode, I’m diving into a topic that so many of us get caught up in—the spark. You know, that instant fireworks feeling everyone seems to chase on first dates. But let’s talk about it: Is the spark really the best foundation for finding your forever person? Spoiler alert: I don’t think so.
I break down the difference between the fleeting thrill of a spark and the lasting power of genuine connection. It’s about curiosity, mutual understanding, and that undeniable vibe that makes you lean in and want to know more. Trust me, the spark can sometimes lead to toxic patterns—no one wants that, right?
Shifting your focus to emotional connection is a game-changer. Think about your best friendships: effortless conversations, shared laughter, and being seen for who you really are. Isn’t that the kind of connection you’d want in a partner?
And for those of you wondering about chemistry, yes, it’s important—but let’s expand what that means. Attraction isn’t just physical; it’s about feeling aligned on what truly matters to you. And if you’re quick to write someone off because there’s no spark right away, maybe it’s time to rethink your approach.
Oh, and I’ve got a pro tip: keep those first dates to about an hour. Why? You’ll find out in this episode. 😉
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Drop a comment on YouTube about your experiences with spark vs. connection, and if this episode resonated, please leave a review on Spotify or Apple. Your support means the world to me.
Ladies, don’t settle for anything less than crazy love because it has to be Crazy Love or Nothing. 💖
Listen to this episode about why you should stop going with the flow on first dates
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