Look, I've watched relationships crash and burn because of this one thing nobody talks about with love languages.
Don't ask "What's your love language?" on dating apps. Most people don't even know what that means. Instead, ask: "How do you show up in a relationship?" You'll get way more authentic answers.
Here's where most women mess up – they expect their partner to read their mind. You have to communicate what you need.
I'm huge on words of affirmation. Will? Not so much. I had to tell him: "I need to hear the words. I need you to tell me you miss me." His brain was like, "But I'm planning our weekend date!" And I'm like, "Cool, but send me a text that says you miss me."
If you tell someone your love language and they say, "I don't do that" – that's a bye-bye moment. Period.
But it goes both ways, queen. If they need physical touch and you're all about receiving gifts, you don't get to be like, "Nope, gifts only." You adjust. You learn. You show up.
If you're rolling your eyes at this, good. That resistance? That's exactly why you're still single or stuck with the wrong people.
Don't settle for someone who won't speak your love language. And don't be the person who refuses to learn theirs.
Remember: It has to be C.R.A.Z.Y. love or nothing.
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