We sit down with larger-than-life retired SWAT team negotiator, motivational speaker, and author, Terry Tucker. In a spirited discussion that could have gone on for hours, Terry entertained us with fascinating tales from his time as a SWAT team negotiator, and his involvement in athletics including playing alongside Michael Jordan in college. His views on communicating with curiosity and in simple language, and his perseverance in the face of very real health challenges he has endured. Articulate and energetic, Terry shares how solicitations for his advice resulted in the culmination of his thoughts packaged in a book he wrote entitled, "Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life".
Terry also dives into his views about divorce and what one can do to better himself in the process. In addition, Terry is a proud dad, beaming over his daughter's resilience in overcoming learning challenges to graduate from the Air Force Academy and joining the elite Space Force, and emotionally sharing his "Too Dad to Quit Moment" with us. Terry's job is to motivate, and he certainly accomplishes it in this episode! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact
Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/PjeGnsBh1g4
Chapters:
00:00 Reflections on Uniqueness and Specialness
01:00 Interview with Terry Tucker: Leading an Uncommon and Extraordinary Life
03:26 Basketball Skills and Experience
07:17 The Impact and Value of Teamwork
11:58 The Benefits and Impact of Jujitsu
13:11 Surrounding Yourself with the Right People and Transitioning Careers
18:30 SWAT Roles and Experiences
22:58 Customer Service and Negotiation Tactics
23:39 Empathy in Negotiations
31:56 Retirement and Identity
33:07 Exploring the Space Force Air Force Academy and Making a Decision for Military School
34:49 Overcoming Challenges and Transitioning to the Space Force
37:05 Personal Reflections on Cancer Diagnosis, Rare Melanoma and Finding Purpose
42:38 Advancements in Technology and the Importance of Hard Work and Failure
46:35 Taking Responsibility and Reflections on Difficult Relationships
52:08 Reflections on Battling Cancer and Parental Responsibility
53:01 The Disconnect in Modern Communication
54:05 The Importance of Non-Verbal Communication in Negotiations
56:13 The Power of Smiling in Phone Calls
56:42 The Importance of Communication and Staying Connected
01:00:33 Working on Your Mind, Heart, and Soul
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Episode References:
Terry's Book: Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GLGVTVS
Mark Zuckerberg Interview with Lex Fridman: https://youtu.be/Ff4fRgnuFgQ
Casey Neistat Video: 10 Simple Tricks to Not Get Divorced, https://youtu.be/Cm_uIxcczWM
Get in touch with Terry:Motivational Check Website: https://www.motivationalcheck.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terry-tucker-9b5605179Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motivationalcheckTwitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/terrytucker201Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sustainableexcellenceauthor
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Ben & Yoel