Back in 2007 and 2008 it was absolutely so busy.
The other welder and I decided it was time to WOBBLE for more money,
I was physically vibrating when we were discussing our terms...
actually I was angry.
I had no idea why but I do now.
I was angry because I had no idea how to ask for what I wanted in my marriage and others areas of my life so why would asking for more money be the same.
I DID NOT KNOW HOW TO EXPRESS MY THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS SO ANGER AND ENTITLEMENT WAS THE GO TO.
So many REGRETS I EARNED living this way but now I have the ability to teach others how to communicate their feelings in a more productive way.
This is made evident in the start of my new coaching group going through the 2 week pretraining in the GAUNTLET I am putting an amazing group of men through right now.
What the biggest takeaway after the first days of the group is when other see they are not alone in the experience of expressing yourself and being VULNERABLE...
IT GIVES THEM THE PERMISSION TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES AND BE VULNERABLE.
OVER TIME, THE MEN LEARN TO ASK FOR WHAT THEY ACTUALLY WANT AND WHY THEY WANT IT.
You can communicate all day long from a place or anger of love but means nothing if you have no idea why you want that.
Sit back and relax and listen to TODAY'S TALE FROM THE TRENCH.
