In a world that seems to thousand tear us in many directions all at once, how the hell are you supposed to be at your best?
How are you supposed to make good decisions, be present, feel on fire when everyone wants a piece of you?
You EAT FIRST!!!
Your BEING, your FULFILLMENT, your HAPPINESS, that is what comes first above all else.
You have been conditioned to see this as selfish...
It is nothing but.
If communicated the right way it can make a relationship bulletproof.
If your partner knows why are investing in yourself, why you need to go golfing/fishing/on a motorcycle ride and you put in the deposits in the relationship beforehand you can create something so amazing.
Do not do those things for yourself and you will not have the capacity to be the partner/father that is able to give to their families.
This is where anger, frustration, rage coming from.
Deep down you want to be able to tell your partner how you feel but you do not know how to communicate and love comes out as anger.
I am able to operate at a high level NOW, only because I am aware of my own happiness and fulfillment first, then I can pour into others and you can do it too!
Sit back and relax and listen to TODAY'S TALE FROM THE TRENCH.