In this episode, I reflect on a situation that occurred during a football game I coached, where some players were called “dirty” or “foul” for playing tough. I discuss how inner-city children, who grow up in challenging environments, often express that struggle through physical play. This doesn’t make them dirty—it’s a reflection of their resilience and the need to mature faster than their peers. I also dive into how people from more stable environments might misunderstand this, thinking their way is the only way, when in reality, these kids are adapting to the circumstances they were dealt.
