Ella is a role model to us, and her stories of self discovery from the past year are as inspiring and funny as she is. From Tinder matches to TikTok revelations, this is not your mother’s coming of age story. For more Ella, you can follow her on Instagram @ellaajabbaz. You can also check out the "Am I a Lesbian Masterdoc" that Ella mentioned here, and as always, follow us on Instagram @jenesaisquoipod.