Kate Conwell from journeybeyondbetrayal.com shares her story of her marriage, from meeting her husband in college to the discovery of his infidelity. Despite the challenges they faced, they were able to work through the pain and rebuild their relationship. Kate emphasizes the importance of having a strong sense of self and values, as well as finding support from trusted friends and professionals. She also highlights the significance of authenticity and honesty in the healing process. While their journey was difficult, Kate and her husband have used their experience to help others and strengthen their own marriage. The conversation revolves around the themes of healing, growth, and community in the context of infidelity in a marriage.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Walls podcast
00:32 Discussion on infidelity, marriage, and trust
01:18 Meeting and dating in college
03:13 Breakup and on-and-off relationship
04:13 Getting engaged and married
05:11 Life as professional track athletes
05:38 Discovery of infidelity
06:07 Staggered disclosure and emotional impact
07:04 Continued disclosure and trauma
08:04 Taking time to grieve and process
09:03 Seeking support and healing
10:02 Importance of authenticity and honesty
11:31 Having a vision for healing and restoration
13:01 Working with mentors and counselors
14:00 Rebuilding the marriage and finding gratitude
15:25 Importance of not suffering alone
16:11 Strength and confidence in facing the situation
19:13 Dealing with potential judgment and shame
20:11 Transparency and sharing the journey
21:28 Having a higher vision and purpose
22:01 Healing individually and as a couple
23:19 Addressing the trauma and brokenness
24:14 Changing the perspective on marriage
26:01 Reevaluating goals and expectations
27:05 Desire for unity and shared vision
28:09 Recognizing the need for change
29:24 Working towards a healthier marriage
31:04 The Vision and Purpose of Relationships
31:58 Moving Beyond Conflict Avoidance
32:26 The Bigger Picture and Deeper Issues
33:14 The Opportunity for Growth and Self-Love
34:00 Creating a New Focus and Vision
35:11 Finding Community and Support
36:19 The Power of Openness and Acceptance
37:13 Overcoming Shame and Rejection
38:13 Taking Responsibility for Personal Growth
39:11 The Importance of Having a Vision
40:24 Believing in Yourself and Your Worthiness
41:24 Controlling Internal Thoughts and Tape
43:30 The Role of Community and Support
45:50 Practical Boundaries and Communication
46:38 Protecting Internal and External Dialogue
49:01 Retraining the Mind and Creating a New Baseline
52:25 Active Participation in Healing and Growth
54:13 Creating a Community for Support
56:03 Coaching and Individual Support
58:45 Choosing Strength and Striving for Openness
59:25 Encouragement and Hope for Those in Similar Situations
