Hey Sparkly Sisters, it's Brandi Babin here, and welcome back to another episode of "Shattered to Unbreakable." Today, we're diving deep into a topic that's been on my mind lately: how we treat each other as women.
We've talked a lot about self-love and comparison, but now I want to shift the focus to how we view and treat other women. It all started at this event I attended where the speaker, Heidi Calmus of Dude Dad @heidicalmus on Instagram discussed the power of community and how we perceive ourselves and others.
It got me thinking. When asked how we feel walking into a room full of women, many of us admit to feeling insecure or inadequate. But here's the kicker: when asked how we view other women in the same room, the responses were eye-opening. Some women were quick to judge, criticizing appearances or making assumptions about personalities.
But here's the thing. We're all in this together, navigating our own insecurities and challenges. So why do we feel the need to tear each other down instead of building each other up?
I was raised by a mom who always found something positive to say about others, and it's a habit I've carried with me (thank you, Mom). I was shocked to learn that some women resort to unnecessary and over-the-top negative thoughts and judgments about other women they don't even know.
Those judgments often stem from our own insecurities projected onto others. And let me tell you, I've been guilty of it too.
You see, I've had my own share of struggles, especially after my divorce, when a smear campaign left me questioning others' perceptions of me. It made me hyper-aware of body language and quick to misinterpret intentions.
But through it all, I've learned the importance of self-reflection and healing. Because when we heal ourselves, we're less likely to project our insecurities onto others.
Imagine a world where women support and uplift each other without judgment or gossip. It's within our reach if we do the work. But it does require us to do the inner work and choose kindness over criticism.
So next time you encounter a woman, instead of focusing on flaws or differences, try to see the beauty and strength within her. And if you catch yourself thinking negatively, take a moment to reflect on where those thoughts are coming from.
Together, we can create a community of empowered, supportive women who lift each other up and shine brightly. So let's commit to being the change we wish to see in the world.
That's all for today, Sweet Sisters. Remember to stay sparkly and help others sparkle too. Until next time, take care and spread kindness wherever you go. Bye for now!
