We tend to argue with our partner "what really happened".
Many hours are spent fighting over who said what, who was first, what actually happened.
But the truth is: "Who Cares?"
Unless you're a judge or a police officer, the facts don't matter in intimate relationships.
In this talk, I explain why the subjective experience of partners is much more important than the objective truth.
Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life.
Practical tips are shared on how to move from objective one up/one down, to subjective eye-level discussions.
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