In this episode of "What Did I Say?", host Dan Rothenberg delves into the first part of a three-part parenting seminar titled "Values Vs. Emotions". As a therapist who works with teenagers and young adults, Dan discusses the impact of parental interactions on kids and the reciprocal relationship between parental actions and the anxiety experienced by both parents and children. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the values and core interests of adolescents and how supporting these values can foster a positive relationship. Dan shares a relatable story about a fictional teenager named Rowan, who undergoes a transformation from pursuing his passion for art to succumbing to peer pressure and engaging in bullying behavior. He explores the role of emotions and how they can derail individuals from their values. The episode concludes with two suggestions for parents: focusing on supporting their child's values by approaching them with curiosity rather than judgment, and becoming aware of repetitive lecturing and letting go of the need to constantly remind their child. By managing their own anxiety and providing a supportive environment, parents can help their children navigate the challenges of adolescence while staying true to their values.
