Ifs and Almosts are the subject of An Elephant for Breakfast Episode 29...If you loved me...If you do this I will do that...If only things could be different. These statements limit relationships and make them conditional. Then there are those regret-filled Almosts. I almost took Scuba lessons. I almost applied for that job. I almost took a chance. Both Ifs and Almosts take the flavor out of life. What might happen if we eliminated both and threw caution to the wind? I have a hunch that this adventure would be a lot more fulfilling.