There is "no thing", no event in life that isn't designed to wake you up. It's our hubris and egoic thinking that keep us from seeing what is in plain sight, the lesson.
Everything in a Universe is in order as it should be, designed by the "superior reasoning power" that created this unimaginable Universe, as Einstein would say.
We do after all, live in a miracle. For more thoughts about that, listen in.
Gratefully,
Steve