- 3:00 Keshia explains her way of thinking when she didn’t approach her Husband about cheating (after following him on numerous occasions). “It became a cycle of me going home and not saying anything (after following him). I wanted to see how long it would go on.” “I wanted to see if he would stop on his own. Would he think about his family? Would he think about his Wife, his two kids? Would he consider us in all of his wrong doings?”
- 7:25 Printing the phone bill and calling numbers. “She had met my son. She knew of his daycare. I remember feeling so much pain. I couldn’t even function at work. I was distraught.” “Not only was there one woman but there were two.” “I shut down again, mentally. I just felt like I can’t win for losing with this man.”
- 16:15 Keshia explains why she ignored so many things just to be “happy” and how she tried to be a better her.
- 21:35 Did you blame yourself for anything? “I did. I blamed myself a lot. I felt like at one point, I blamed myself so bad that I was like Keshia you’re weak. You’re weak and you’re weak minded and all of this is your fault because if you would’ve walked away years ago, you wouldn’t be dealing with this. I blamed myself for nagging, having a mouth, having an attitude. But it was only reverse psychology.” THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME FOR DEMANDING THE WAY THAT I WANTED TO BE LOVED.” “It’s my love language and I needed to stand up for what I believe in.”
- 23:45 Did you ever feel like it was your husband’s fault or the other woman’s fault? Who’s to blame? Keshia dropped some gems on this topic!
- 29:05 Keshia’s husband goes off to the military.
- 31:00 Keshia steps on the other side and becomes unfaithful in the midst of her brokenness.
- 41:37 Finding out about another relationship while her Husband was in the military, back to investigating his lies and finding out about more women to making a final decision, leave or stay. “They had a relationship for so long, including the time of when I was pregnant with our youngest child.” I actually almost died on the table while giving birth to him, I had to have an emergency C-section. Bleeding out on the table, giving life to your seed and immediately after, you leave to be with her.”
- 52:26 “I want a divorce.”
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