In this episode, Dr. Lakelyn dives into part two of a three part series on caregiving relationships with a discussion on spousal caregiving. Dr. Lakelyn talks with Laurel Wittman, President and Board Member of Well Spouse Association. Laurel is a spousal caregiver herself and also helps to run a non-profit dedicated to supporting those who care for a spouse or partner.
Episode highlights include:
- Insights on who spousal caregivers are and the prevalence
- Differences between spousal caregivers and other types of caregivers
- Isolation experienced by spousal caregivers
- Changing relationship dynamics, including impact on intimacy
- The emotional rollercoaster of caring for a spouse, especially guilt
- Resources to support spousal caregivers
Helpful links from this episode:
-Well Spouse Association: wellspouse.org
- Caregiving in the U.S. 2020 Report
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00:00 - Intro
01:29 - Introducing Laurel Wittman
04:44 - Well Spouse
06:44 - Who are spousal caregivers?
10:23 - Unique differences of spousal caregivers
13:45 - Providing more hours of care
17:39 - Longevity of the care journey
20:28 - The choice in providing care
22:27 - Home Instead
23:11 - Feelings of isolation
26:20 - Financial impacts
28:24 - Positives of the role
31:58 - Impact on intimacy
36:09 - Managing feelings of guilt
39:18 - When to consider respite care
42:09 - Complicated relationships
45:15 - What to expect from Well Spouse
48:47 - Advice to spousal caregivers
49:49 - Outro
