Its often said that an absent father is better than a bad one. We don’t distinguish between them here as an absent father is just one type of bad father. We encourage males to strive to conquer the factors that retard fatherhood and deliberately evolve into excellent fathers. If you are absent then you rob your family and yourself of that experience of seeing an abusive father become conoassionate and seeing an indifferent husband become a fiery lover. There are times when a man may need to excuse himself if he has a drug issue or sexual deviancy etc, however that can be temporary in the journey towards nuclear manliness and away from malliteracy. We left this deliverately open ended to invite your comments both here and www.famtifamily.com. Enjoy thanksgiving day crushing malliteracy. Why rob G-d and this world of you and until next time...be nuclear