“When you know who you are, nothing can stop you.”
- Rebecca Davis
In this powerful and emotionally resonant episode, we sit down with Rebecca Davis, a freelance writer, deep thinker, and founder of the Not Your Enemy Project, a bold initiative committed to reducing estrangement and building bridges between people with differing beliefs.
Through face-to-face dialogues, honest storytelling, and creative tools like staged readings of failed conversations, Rebecca is helping people unlearn their assumptions and reconnect with one another on a human level.
Rebecca’s work is rooted in the radical idea that true respect starts with accountability—for yourself and others. As she puts it, a F*cking Cool Woman is someone who stands fully in her power without needing to dominate, who would rather walk alone than abandon her truth, and who knows that kindness, authenticity, and emotional responsibility are non-negotiables.
In this conversation, we dive deep into what it means to pursue friendship with intention, to disrupt the status quo with clarity and grace, and to embrace the full arc of becoming—at every age. Rebecca shares why multi-generational friendships matter, how respect opens the door to understanding, and why women’s friendships are one of the most valuable forms of love we can experience.
Rebecca is a Fu*cking Cool Woman because she lives the values of Respect, Encourage, Celebrate by daring to do the hard emotional work—asking hard questions, having hard conversations, and believing in people anyway. Her mission is nothing short of transformation: to help people see each other, not as enemies, but as possibilities for connection and growth.
NOTE: The song mentions about “doiong the hard stuff” - We Can Do the Hard Stuff by Tish Melton (It’s really good!!)
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instagram: @notyourenemyproject
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