Dating after divorce is not easy. Divorce is hard. Divorce when you have children is even harder. Colton and J.J. discuss their own experiences in dating after divorce. We dive into some pretty touchy topics this week:
- What should the timeframe look like between your divorce and when you start dating again?
- If you have kids, how soon should you consider introducing your children to your dating partner?
- Leaving what you experienced in the past will best serve your dating partner. The uncoupling process is challenging.
- Understand yourself and your values, and be honest up front to ensure a healthier relationship. Your identity is a gift to you and your future dating partner.
- Trust is complicated, but it's a mutual experience. If you expect a new dating partner to earn your trust, then you are placing them at a deficit. Guarding your heart sounds wise, but what position are you putting your dating partner in when you are guarded?
And that's just the tip of the iceberg! Dating after divorce is a continued journey in knowing your best self so you can find your loving, lasting life partner.
What are your thoughts on dating after divorce? What has worked or hurt in your dating journey? We'd love to hear from you. Thank you for your ongoing support.
