It takes time to understand your partner’s interpretation of things because of who they are and have been throughout life. Partners can trigger trauma, but they can’t solve the historical trauma. Can we both be right because of our interpretation? What does initiating the awareness of a problem look like in a relationship, and what can a couple do? Understanding doesn’t necessarily mean agreeing. Do we have the desire to honor the concept of marriage or coupleship?
In this episode, Dr. Vince Horan discusses The Sacred Crucible of Marriage. What it’s capable of is only as good as the self-awareness, maturity, and confidence of each partner. Living with your partner 24/7 will bring up unresolved traumas. You can share your story as an initial step in counseling. Then, commit to go through the process. How are you communicating? Do you have the tools and the desire? Vince talks about the recycling of traumas, and how we can push past them to heal and communicate with our partner.
This special episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand themselves and their partner, and also serves as a great introduction to becoming your best self for your current or future partner. Be sure to check out Horan Counseling Services if you want to dive deeper and thrive in your relationships.
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References and Resources
Russell Brand’s Recovery: Freedom From Our Addictions
The Sacred Crucible of Marriage video on YouTube
Horan Counseling Services (Facebook)
Email: VinceHoran@comcast.net
Phone Number: 253-536-9161
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