In this episode, Samantha Gassman, a former Air Force Combat Systems Officer, shares her military career and transition to civilian life. She discusses her reasons for leaving the military, including the retirement of her aircraft and personal considerations. Samantha emphasizes the importance of creating closure and having a clear bookend to the military career. She also highlights the need for self-reflection and exploration when discovering new career opportunities. Samantha advises veterans to maintain connections with fellow veterans and seek advice from those who have already transitioned. Lastly, she discusses the challenges of balancing career and family as a woman in the military. In this part of the conversation, Sam discusses the challenges of being a military spouse and the sacrifices that come with it. She emphasizes the importance of de-emphasizing work as the central focal point of value and prioritizing family. Sam also shares her experience of transitioning from active duty to becoming a military spouse and the emotional adjustments that came with it. She provides advice on finding personal hobbies and passions, managing ego and identity shifts, and cultivating community outside of the military. Lastly, Sam encourages individuals to give themselves grace and not expect to have everything figured out right away. In this episode, the hosts discuss the challenges and opportunities faced by military veterans transitioning into civilian life. They emphasize the importance of networking, building relationships, and finding the right career path. Mental health challenges and the support systems available for veterans are also explored. The conversation touches on entrepreneurship, continuing education, and finding purpose and meaning after the military. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and resources for veterans navigating the post-military journey.
Timestamps
0:00 Samantha Gassman - TPMP #39
02:14 The Start Of Sam's Career
06:08 Deciding To Leave The Military
09:33 Leaving The Military With 10 Years Left
17:43 Having A Mental Bookend To Your Military Career
24:35 How To Discover New Passions
28:54 Ideating Through Community
33:21 Feeling Loyalty To A Job After The Military
36:39 Career-Focused Mindset As A Woman
43:06 Everything Can Give Your Life Value
49:27 How Sam Started Pursuing Writing
50:56 Military Member To Military Spouse
56:45 Building Self Awareness
01:05:50 Dealing With A Lack Of Structure
01:12:15 How To Cultivate Community
01:15:18 Final Advice
